Love Is / Is Not Easy

-Love is not easy- This was the topic being debated during the first round of debate at DTC University Malaya yesterday.

A few points to ponder upon..

1. Is love difficult?

Yes, love is difficult because both parties have to tolerate each other, building up the trust, respect, responsibility and love whole heartedly.

No, love is not difficult as long as both parties tolerate each other, building up the trust, respect, responsibility and love whole heartedly.

See, in conclusion, love is simple because it can be both ways and yet love is complicated because it can be both ways.

2. There is no fixed module of love.

Totally agree on this. There shall not be any comparison. Love is not a number which can be graded. You will never know how much a person loves you. Even you yourself couldnt gauge how much is your love towards your lover. Because love is not mathematically derived. I would say it's a nature instinct and the greatest element that god creates for life. Love is not a subject paper that can be tested or examined. But then, there is a subject named "Paktology" (Subject of love) being creatively created by my coursemates. This is quite amusing indeed. =) And we wish friends to score an A for their paktology so as to say we hope that they will find their soul mates soon.

3. Why lovers break up and divorce?

Reasons suggested - because they are not suitable, they have no longer adore each other.

What I would like to say is, all of these are not love. These are just sort of temporary admiration or self-satisfied endeavours which are totally immature. What makes up a couple is that they endure and overcome all odds and hurdles together. All the incidents strengthen the bond between a couple. People fall in love at the first place, as time goes by, love is not purely I love you and you loves me. The love slowly adds in the sense of responsibility and willingness to live and support each other as long as the breaths are still being taken in and the hearts are still beating. One has to bear the responsibility for one's decision. You've made the choice and you shall make things right at all cost. Giving up a relationship, beating up your partner, torturing each other, committing suicide etc are not the ways an adult should behave. We are humans, and what makes the difference between us and animals? It's because we are blessed by god with an advanced brain which we shall be able to integrate, interpret, think and act with logics, humanity and rationality. So, think and act wisely for your actions, not only in the matter of love affairs, but also in every single minor aspect of your life.

Lastly, a mature love can makes a couple go further whereas an immature love can be destructive, not only to the lovers, but also to the people around them- the family, the innocent children and even the society. Love is not a burden. You just need to make the souls of two different entities merge. Sincerity makes love beautiful and Love makes the world beautiful. =D

Love is patient,love is kind.It does not envy,it does not boast,it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. . .And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. -1 Corinthians 13-

Above are just some personal thoughts, readers please don't be irritated if you disagree with me. This is not from love expert nor paktology A scorer~ LOL

To the Heartiest

What crosses your mind when you see flowers? Well, flowers bring alot of meaning and are part of many important occasions range from happy Valentine, Mother's Father's Day etc to sorrowful funeral.
There's a question in my mind, won't the florists be delighted seeing all the colourful petals everyday?? This simply makes me jealous!
And for this special month, the convocations let the florists buzz up with earnings! A normal bouquet of flowers will cost around rm50! This is kinda expensive but people still willing to spend for it because the lovable and joyful congratulation part to their beloved friends and families supersedes the financial matter! =)

I snapped a photo with a rose =P
Red rose symbolises Passion, Love, Respect, Courage, Congratulations which I would like to dedicate this to every of my friends and graduated seniors, especially my own buddy-SiewYan.

She actually lives at Cameron and her family is doing some kind of flower plantation. Sound cool right? So, the flowers we dedicated to her might not seem any awesomely beautiful than what she has at her Cameron house backyard. XD.
Anyway, would like to wish her the best of luck and stay tough for the journey ahead.
Do visit us whenever you drops by at KL yea~ =)

The braid

I got entangled.

By Miss Lim XinLi

And I love it =)

Some share of thought here to enlighten the readers:

-From "I" to "We"-

Humans -- tend to see the world in a very "me versus you" context.

The almighty "I" is the center of the universe.

That's what makes our interpersonal difficulties so common:

Divorce rates are higher than 50 percent,

kids rebel against their parents,

people fight with their bosses and quit their jobs in anger

--because at the heart of our relationships,

it is almost always ME against YOU.

This sort of tangle I definitely not fancy with.

National Geographic

Alice In The Wonderland

Africa

Mount Fuji

(p/s: my eyes look sleepy right? It was swollen on that day. spoiler.)

National Geographic store

Launched on 22nd June

National Geographic Store Address:

T 16-17, Level 3, Lot 10 Shopping Centre.

Didnt manage to visit it last time.

Spotted a nice NG tee that time and would like to own one =)

The tee is similar to this, just that the one i saw was a bright pink colour which looks sporty and outgoing but not girlish~

Deng deng deng ~~~!!!

Nice??? Nice!!!!

D for *.U.C.K

There is a duckies eatery at Lot 10 HuTong which I think is superb.

The duckies are crispy with its outer layer, which means the SKIN!!!

Woots. Some of my friends will yell at me when knowing that I like the skin part of chicken and duck (Pig?? Only suckling pig's skin is acceptable).

They commented that the skin is disgusting.

But there are also some fella who like the sexy skin just like me =)

C'mon!! Imagine KFC chicken skin!! suckling pig's skin!! Yum Yum!!

Okay, back to the topic, duckies at HuTong, they come with different kinds of cuisine whether it is with the rice or with the noodles.

It is sooooooooo D.E.L.I.C.I.O.U.S!!

However, if you're in diet, then perhaps you will reject this delicacy as there is some portion of fatty oily layer beneath the skin. =)

A dish of duckies rice or duckies noodles cost nearly rm15.

Quite expensive right??

But nice to have a try =)

Golden Crispy Duckies luring me!!

The duckies noodles (top) and duckies rice (bottom)

TAO

Had a drink at the newly opened TAO a month ago, not the TAO buffet cuisine, but it's a club or pub situated just beside The Curve Library.

It is like a pub for me though.

I like the ambiance of the night as there were not much people.

I dislike throng of people in an enclosed environment, especially clubs or pubs as there will be choking second hand smoke all around.

In my very own view, to drink, is a way to socialize where people should learn.

I'm not encouraging liquor consumption, but at least you should equip yourself with certain level of drinking ability so that you wont easily get drunk.

A way of self-protection =)

Friends For Life

An old friend visited Sitiawan last few days and together with another sweet couple,

we had a great time =)

He is so called the mad alien. haha~ this is how he regards himself.

but i would like to call him as fatty ooi! muahahaha~

Hey dude, still remember this??

hahaha~ nice pic! I think this was the only pic we took together despite all the crazy time~LOL

Another friend- Dr. Koh Juin Ting... a future veterinarian ~ A caring people who not only sayang all the animals from domestic pets to agricultural animals, but also being kind and caring to his beloved.

Nehh, do you ever do this to your other half? See, how sweet they are =)

For the first day we had mahjong at juinting's house. My first time playing mahjong, not considering those computer games mahjong. Yea, nice game!

After that, we headed to Foo's steakhouse.

Foos Steak House
34-35-36 , G / Floor
Persiaran PM 2 / 3 , Section 2
32040 , Manjung , Perak , Malaysia

The steakhouse actually served great eateries and soothing ambiance.

Half of the restaurant is western dining style and the other half is like a pub.

Cool rite =)

And they offered a range of delicacies from western food to japanese food.

Chicken Gordon Bleu which I ordered

Japanese Chicken that Juinting ordered

Portuguese Chicken that Adrian ordered

The crispy garlic bread. Owhh!! I miss that! <3

Some japanese sushi we ordered:

Seriously, I never expect Sitiawan can serve this standard of decent western and japanese food.

Totally competitive to any western and japanese dining outlets at KL's.

Bravo Sitiawan =)

For the second day, JuinTing were supposed to send adrian back to Ipoh and asked me along for a one day trip.

The mad alien actually bought alot of thingy from here until couldn't take bus back to Ipoh!

So you can see how passionate he's towards Sitiawan. Haha...

Eateries at Ipoh includes:

DimSum! Yeah~ The best ever DimSum at Malaysia-FokSan =)

A BIG WARNING for you, don't order this, something like taufu fa with garlic taste. Just dislike the taste.

Photos of memories

Sate & Otak-otak

Friends, A big thank for the great meals and fun times =)

Study hard and strive to achieve the impossibles!

Another coincidence was I actually met HER!!! Ng Sook Ying!!

at the female washroom at Kinta City! OMG!

I just can say that we have the FATE to meet =D

She was one of my bestie from National Service.

If you do notice that a blog post of mine on 26 march 2008, I did actually mention about her and our several coincidental encounters~

and this time on 1st July 2010 it occurred AGAIN~ =D

Hey girl, miss you soooo much!

How if one day we work at the same hospital??

I tell you if that occur, my jaws will drop until this extent:

Hahahaha... add oil pharmacist =D